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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

oh Kate, I didn't know. (of course, we barely know each other, and still...) I'm glad you're here too. xo

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I've recently lost two retired historian colleagues, but they lived full lives, and it was the news of the death of a former student of mine, only in her mid-thirties, that hit hardest. Life is cruel and beautiful. Thank you for reminding us of the beauty in the everyday, Kate.

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". . . so much to discover, to learn, to give. . . " Amen, sister!

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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

Every word you write makes me wish we lived close enough to be close friends. Seriously, you are always full of surprises, wisdom, and such joyful insight.

My oven is broken, waiting for parts. As soon as they arrive and I install them I'll bake a pie in honor of you, your father, daughter, and Ram Das!

I hope your day is as sweet as strawberry pie.

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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

Kate, You always seem to make me think and pause to check my priorities. Thanks for helping me try and keep things straight! It does take a village... Happy Monday, a snowy one here!❤️

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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

Kate, memories of wonder filled moments/ connections/ places/ shared beliefs/ values brings comfort. Sara was a sweet happy baby and had a good life. I am grateful for many of our shared moments. Here is one from 7 years 3 weeks ago.

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It’s difficult to share the saddest, most intimate moments of loss and reflection in a way that touches others who may know you only in this space, but you do it so well, Kate. This is a touching piece—and the music and images from the Taj Mahal are sublime.

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Thank you for your wise reminder today. I've got a lot to be grateful for...not the least of which is the dodging of yet another heart attack in my mother. I am grateful for the first responders and medical staff in the hospital (except for the guy who tried to kick me out of the ICU waiting room!) I'm grateful too, for the hospital security staff that showed me where an out-of-towner could hunker down in the chapel.

There is good in this world, and it deserves recognition when we find it.

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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

Me 2!

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Thank you for this very thoughtful and heart felt piece.

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Mar 4Liked by Kate McDermott

Such touching writing. I honor your good heart, your approach to life as we experience this stage of it, your openess to making friends wherever you are. Today you encourage me to move from procrastination to exploration- a difficult thing for me but at least I can ponder it

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Mar 5Liked by Kate McDermott

Kate, you are an amazing woman! Sounds like you have filled your years with many adventures, learning, giving and love. And you keep on… I am in awe.

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Aww, Kate, this is beautiful. 🥹

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Kate, my heart - I'm so sorry for these devastating losses, but so grateful that you've continued to share beauty with the world. We're all the better for it. Losing my mom & sister shaped me, and I'm still trying to figure out the path forward. Thank you for being such an inspiration!

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Mar 5Liked by Kate McDermott

At our age memories are both bittersweet and precious and oh, how wonderful you are here, walking the earth

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