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Ruth Stroud's avatar

That song brings back memories for sure (the naked backside, not so much!). The most important lessons are those learned though hard knocks. If we're lucky, we learn to get out of our own way. Sounds like you have. Best of luck as you continue your lifetime project.

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Kate McDermott's avatar

You know, I think it is the same thing in writing, Ruth. When we get out of our own way, the words come.

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Barbara Martin's avatar

Dear Kate,

Warm wishes to you.

Thank you for keeping me in the loop.

xo

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Always! xo

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Mel's avatar

That was a post for the record books!

I do remember "Those Were the Days". Quite well, actually. I was 17 when that song hit the airwaves. I was never all that fond of it because it seemed so sad. At 17, no one wants to be sad.

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Pat Willard's avatar

Thanks guys! I digged up one.

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Okie dokie!

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Cheryl Young's avatar

The song - I used to hum along with lightness and laughter - now I get all teary eyed.

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Kate McDermott's avatar

I totally get that, Cheryl. How our life and times change us.

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Pat Willard's avatar

I would! I lasted a week. a room full of girls! that I had to talk to! that I was being told I had to do things I didn't want to!

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Not one of us, that I recall, ever earned a badge.

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Pat Willard's avatar

Do either of you have a recipe for pineapple upside down cake that I can share in tromorrow's story? If so, would you be willing to share?

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Kate McDermott's avatar

I defer to Anne, our reigning cake queen, for this one, Pat.

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Pat Willard's avatar

And we have the bumps and scraps to prove it...each and every one our little badge of honor

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Wouldn't you just love to see the girl scout badge sash ours would be? Not that I was in the GS for long...our troop leader had a "nervous breakdown" and that was the end of that.

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Anne Byrn's avatar

Only you, Kate, can pull off tea time, introspection, Wendell Berry, and a nude bicyclist in one post. Love you!

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Jolene Handy's avatar

Agreed!

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Well, thank you kindly!

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Anne, I love you, too! I'm glad you liked this one. ❤️

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Pat Willard's avatar

you are awesome even if you take a detour through a sketchy path! love your spirit, woman~!

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Kate McDermott's avatar

Thank you, Pat! I feel like we both have taken some wonderful paths.

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